Marriage is an important and personal milestone in everyone’s life. It’s not just an event but a decision that brings two individuals and families together, closer and brings a lot of changes in their lives. Marriage is a duty that is best fulfilled on time. It’s a contract or a combination of two persons where they accept the personalities of each other without any conditions and try to achieve their goals by supporting each other. A married couple is considered successful when they positively influence other family members in terms of family growth, living standards, manners, ethics, financial and social status.
Parents are facing many problems in finding suitable matches for their children. Despite changes in the trends and lifestyles Zaroorat e Rishta has become a major concern of every household. Hectic, tough routines and never-ending wishes have brought people to a mindset where they expect much more from others in a shorter span of time. It leads to psychological issues especially in youth and has blocked the way of easy marriages.
It starts becoming difficult when we set unreasonable expectations about education, financial status & physical characteristics. Seekers always ask baseless questions like:
“He/ she is not fair enough”
“He / she looks older than our son/daughter”
“His or her height is too short”
“We need a doctor or engineer only”
“We are looking for a boy/ girl settled in abroad”
Such comments cause embarrassment among the families and it leads to a social issue when others notice the same remarks and reject straight away without going into details. It happens due to lack of adequate knowledge and lack of proper education.
Parenting is a holy task, father and mother have different responsibilities. They both play a significant role in molding the behavior and attitude of their children when the way they behave and talk with others shows the environment they are being raised in and how their parents have brought them up. The family foundations will play a part in shaping behavior, skills and ability to adapt to different situations. The primary influence of this environment is the parenting style. Good parents demonstrate to their children the meaning of a happy married life with love and joy of serving others. Most of the parents interpret marriage as an ultimate goal of life but they themselves are unaware of the importance of parenting, mind therapy and training of their own children.
Financial stress of families causes conflict over things related to matchmaking of individuals as well as families.
An educated person always prefers the same level of qualification and professionalism in prospective partners which make them overage.
Most of the families are area and caste specific, their major concerns are to find matches for their loved ones in metropolitan cities, avoid smaller towns and prioritize settlement in big cities or abroad.
In this era, people’s requirements and expectations are increasing day by day. They are turning down many relationships in search of the best matches. In this context, Simple Rishta is one of the best Pakistani Rishta websites to help you find the potential partner of your choice in Pakistan or abroad. We help people to get rishta on time by considering the requirements, evaluating the families, providing certain counseling if needed and verifying the provided credentials. If you want our matrimonial services, please feel free to visit us at www.simplerishta.com.